Home Again, Home Again

Being home for the last three days (with iffy internet) has inspired me to dig into the archives to amuse you (and complete Nanopoblano), so here’s something I wrote a while back that being back at the homestead has reminded me of:

A Hellacious Belle’s Guide to the New South: Pretty is as Pretty Does

Things Southern Mamas say to their little girls:

“I’m gonna jerk a knot on you.”
“Just wait ’til I tell your Daddy what you’ve done.”
“Get that hair out of your eyes.”
“Wipe that look off of your face.”
“Missy, we don’t talk that way.”
“Don’t make me come over there.”
“Get ‘cher tail over here right this minute.”
“You are getting mighty big for your britches.”
“You are walkin’ a fine line, young lady.”
“Stand up straight.”
“Pretty is as pretty does.”
“Hush your mouth.”
“You think you’re real cute, don’t you?”
“I brought you in to this world, and I can take you out of it.”
“Sister, you sass me again and I’ll knock you into next week.”
“If you keep making that face, it’s gonna freeze that way.”
“Don’t you act ugly now.”
“Clean that plate. There are children starving in Africa.”
“Go out in that yard right now and pick me a switch.”
“If you eat your bread crusts, it will make your hair curly.”
“You’d be so pretty if you just smiled.”

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“Whuppins were like kid taxes we paid with our behinds.”
― Terris McMahan Grimes, Smelling Herself: A Novel

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Being Thankful

Internet issues at the folks, so to entertain you, here is a photo of our full crew from Thanksgiving dinner yesterday.

  
I hope you all are having a wonderful weekend and I hope to be back on line (for more than 30 seconds) and back with you soon!

See Ya Later Alligator…

Since this is Thanksgiving week, I thought I’d share some things in my life that I’m extremely grateful for.  I’m certainly thankful for this post I wrote two years ago, which I’ll share with you again, about a special little guy who’s a big part of my life.

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My alligator butler, Jeeves.

 

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We first met Jeeves (or his prototype, who we now call Jeeves, Sr.) at a beach house we rented in Rosemary Beach, Florida two years ago. I fell immediately, head-over-heels in love with the little bronze fella and launched a relentless campaign for a Jeeves of our own. I found his maker on-line (Frontgate) and immediately began staging pictures of Jeeves “being helpful around the house” to assist in the case I was presenting my husband to justify spending hard-earned money on a prefabricated metal reptile.

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Whose life wouldn’t be improved with a little assistance from a medium-sized fake lizard with a perky bow tie bearing an ever-so-helpful tray?

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I was so wildly successful in my proposal (or so annoying my husband just gave in) that soon a little Jeeves came to live with us.

We have whole-heartedly incorporated him into our lives and actually dress him up for holidays.

Sure and begorrah, that's me lucky lizard!

Sure and begorrah, that’s me lucky lizard!

Burn's Supper (Scottish Holiday on the birthday of poet Robert Burns)

Burn’s Supper (Scottish Holiday on the birthday of poet Robert Burns)

Baby New Years. (except that when I posted this picture on Facebook, everyone thought David and I were announcing that we were having a child.)

Baby New Years. (except that when I posted this picture on Facebook, everyone thought David and I were announcing that we were having a child.)

He’s wildly handy for al fresco suppers.

Jeeves, Sommelier

Jeeves, Sommelier

We often have him greet party guests at the door with a selection of libations.

"Drinks, anyone?"

“Drinks, anyone?”

So today, I am grateful for my wonderful alligator butler.

And my even more awesome husband for bringing him into our lives.

(By the way, Jeeves has his own Facebook page and would like to be your friend.)

#Share Your World: Choosing Gratitude

Tonight, I am grateful for  Cee’s Share Your World Blogging Challenge, which asks us this week to share things we’re thankful for.

What are you grateful for in regard to:

Your home life?

I’m very grateful for my husband, David.  I was single for a really, really long time – it’s not that I didn’t meet people or date,  I just never found that person who was right for me.

We met six years ago.  It was truly magic.

And it’s been worth the wait.

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Your family?

I’m incredibly thankful for my parents and my mother-in-law.  Their love, support and friendship is such an important and necessary part of my life.

Your blogging community?

I can’t say “thank you” enough for the kind support of the Cheerpeppers and the entire WordPress community and the opportunity to interact with these talented, caring and multi-faceted people.

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Your city or immediate area in which you live?

I live in Atlanta and while I do sometimes complain about the traffic (which is horrific), I’m totally in love with our art and restaurant scenes and so many of our vibrant, charming neighborhoods.

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The regional area in which you live?

I’m very proud to be a Southern girl.  I’m thankful that I was raised with manners (even if they were at times “whupped” into me) and an appreciation for my heritage.

The country where you live?

I am fortunate and thankful to be an American.  We are blessed with so many freedoms and opportunities.

You?

I’m so very grateful for courage found in unexpected times and places, for growth and hope, for overcoming my fears and jumping into to new things.

My theme for this month’s Nano Poblano challenge is Motion.

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Walkabout

My theme for this month’s Nano Poblano challenge is Motion.

Today my bestie and I strolled the Atlanta Beltline over to Inman Park for brunch.

They had installed some new art on the trail, which was pretty fun.

 

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It was pretty crowded, so we had to keep breaking through groups of people, leaping out of the path of bikes and skateboards, just to be able to take pictures.

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I guess that made us “artful dodgers.”

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Seeing beauty

The theme for this week’s WordPress Photo Challenge is magic.

That’s a really cool subject, and as soon as I read it, I knew I wanted to post something, so I let the concept start rolling around my brain, picking up lint and potato chip crumbs (need to vacuum in there) while trying to crystallize what it is that I find magical.

A poem kept coming to mind.  I read it ages ago in high school, but it stuck with me, I think, because of the flat-out gorgeous, visceral imagery and the message –  of what beauty lies in the incredible uniqueness we see in the world all around us: light, dark, bright, shadowed, striped, swirled, one of a kind:

Glory be to God for dappled things —
For skies of couple-colour as a brindled cow;
For rose-moles all in stipple upon trout that swim;
Fresh-firecoal chestnut-falls; finches’ wings;

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Landscape plotted and pieced — fold, fallow, and plough;
And all trades, their gear and tackle and trim.

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All things counter, original, spare, strange;
Whatever is fickle, freckled (who knows how?)

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With swift, slow; sweet, sour; a-dazzle, dim;
He fathers-forth whose beauty is past change:
Praise him.

– Gerard Manley Hopkins

 

My theme for this month’s Nano Poblano challenge is Motion.

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Move it along…

My theme for this month’s Nano Poblano challenge is Motion.

Change sucks.

I honestly realize that change is quite frequently a very good thing and the changes I’m embarking on certainly are good and wonderful things, but breaking out of the box I so carefully built up around myself is painful.

I put my notice in at work yesterday.

I’m changing careers – that doesn’t suck.  I’m genuinely thrilled and excited about the opportunities that lie before me.

But saying goodbye to a job I’ve worked for almost five years is hard.  Saying goodbye to a place and a brand I helped define, one that contains part of me, is hard.  Saying goodbye to good people who brought humor and kindness to my life and both shared and lightened the load, is hard. Detaching myself, as my work world talks calmly about life after me, is hard.  But I have to let go because life moves on.  And so do I.

‘Cause I no longer got a dog in that hunt.

Move it along.

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Three Things Thursday: 11.17.16 – Moved by Gratitude

My theme for this month’s Nano Poblano challenge is Motion.  I found myself being really moved today by gratitude for the people and situations in my life.

Today was our annual Thanksgiving lunch at work and I am grateful for an amazing meal.

This is a day I look forward to all year.  The hotel throws down like an acre of food – there’s a huge buffet of  traditional holiday favorites: turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes, gravy, cranberry sauce, green bean casserole, corn, salad, rolls and cornbread.  Plus there’s a giant table filled with desserts from chocolate cakes and cookies to apple, pecan and pumpkin pie and coffee, sodas, bottled waters, sweet and unsweetened iced teas.

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Lions, tigers and bears…oh my!

My old sales coordinator used to joke that we “trained” for it several days in advance, to be sure we could take advantage of all the wonderful food offered in the yearly spread, including skipping breakfast the morning of and taking a couple of laps around the hotel lobby just before to “clear a little more room.”

I think it was even better this year than in years past.

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It was so incredibly delicious and Thanksgiving food is my absolute favorite, but to my shame, I couldn’t finish my first plate and I even gave up halfway through the pun’kin pie!

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It was really nice to hang out with some of my team though, and enjoy such a lovely meal.

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Which brings me to my second thing – I’m overwhelmingly lucky to work with such great people in my department. 

Despite being in an industry that produces daily, sometime hourly, challenging and stressful situations, they always maintain a steady, slightly warped sense of humor and an unimpeachable camaraderie that’ll keep you going even when you want to throw up your hands and walk out the door.  They’re fun people.  And funny.  We enjoy each other’s company and hearing about each other’s lives even if we don’t spend much time together outside of work.

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Which leads me to number three: I’m thankful for one of the best bosses I’ve had the privilege to work for in my life. 

Before coming to this job, I worked for a company where my boss wasn’t so great.

I’ll leave it at that.  It’s an understatement.

My current boss has been with us for about three years now and while results driven and pulling unprecedented numbers for the company, he manages to create an environment where everyone feels their opinion is valued.  Not only has he consistently had my back, but if I screw up, I can walk into his office and say, “Wow, did I ever #@$% up.  I need your help.”  ::sniffle:: And inevitably he will say, “Yeah, it can’t be as bad as you think.  Let’s just fix it.”

Oh and he wears really nutty socks in lurid colors and we will randomly respond to each other’s emails in the form of memes.

It’s the little things.

So for these things, little and big (plus a ton more) I am truly grateful.

Three Things Thursday is a blog challenge hosted by the lovely Ms. Emily’s Home for Full Grown Nerds, that simply asks that you name three things that made your life awesome this week.

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