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At six, I stood
by the big American flag
and pledged allegiance,
empty words of a child.
Friday night, I stood
by the blaring TV
and pledged again,
weighted words of an adult,
to honor my country and those who protect her.

Share Your World – 2015 Week #46

Here’s my contribution to Cee’s Weekly Question and Answer Challenge – Share Your World.

What type of popular candy you do not like to get?

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Andes Thin Mints. 

When I was seven or eight, I got a box of them in my Christmas stocking and  for some reason, proceeded to eat The. Entire.Box. To this day, I can’t smell chocolate and peppermint together without feeling nauseated.

What do you feel is the most enjoyable way to spend $500?

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I would have a huge dinner party with lots of friends. That’s one of my favorite things in the world: to gather a bunch of my favorite people together and throw out a huge spread with some great wines and wonderful conversation.

Where do you eat breakfast?

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I don’t usually eat breakfast during the week – it’s a jump out of bed, get ready and bolt for work kinda thing.  I do love brunch on the weekend with friends, especially when we walk the Beltline over to Inman Park, Krog Market or Ponce City Market. 

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My Daddy loves to cook, and I so enjoy the big family breakfasts he makes on holidays and when we’re on vacation at the beach. Bacon, sausage, eggs to order, fresh fruit, biscuits and gravy and a big, spicy bloody mary!

Would you rather ride one of the worlds longest zip lines or bungee jump one of the highest in the world? This will come with a 5-day all expense vacation.

I think I would rather ride a zip line.  I’ve been para sailing before, and that was awesome.  I think I’d rather have the long, fast ride than a giant drop!

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

Last week I was grateful for time spent with friends during the week and David’s family over the weekend.  This week, I’m really looking forward to the brunch we’re hosting on Sunday!  We haven’t had a party in months and I’m especially thrilled to that a couple of friends I haven’t seen in a long time will be attending.  It will be an early Thanksgiving in a lot of ways.

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Instant Grat Instagram: “Dogs and Cats Living Together”

I warned you that I had a new topic I would pull out whenever the writing genes wouldn’t zip up all the way.

I call it Instant Grat Instagram. {Lamely} bringing you my favorite moments from what is currently my favorite social media platform in a more or less thematic effort. 

Hope you enjoy!

This week, Dogs and Cats.

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At one with the jungle.

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My sweet little foster pup, Spot, wanting desperately to “play” with the cats. Cats having NONE of it.

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It’s a tough room.

Sleepy kids.

Sleepy kids.

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My sister’s “puppy,” Paddington.

I draw the line at buying him a surfboard. Or little surf shorts. Or flip flops. And he's way too close to the TV.

I draw the line at buying him a surfboard. Or little surf shorts. Or flip flops. And he’s way too close to the TV.

Not original packaging.

Not original packaging.

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Detective Inspector Ferguson hard at work

Mr. Handsome

Mr. Handsome

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PPTHHPTHPFFTHPPPT!!!

“Dogs and cats living together! Mass hysteria!” – Dr. Peter Venkman, Ghostbusters.

#WeekendCoffeeShare: Sunday November 15, 2015.

#WeekendCoffeeShare was created by Part Time Monster. I’ve always wanted to participate, so this morning, I made an extra pot and I hope you’ll join me.

If we were having coffee…

I would tell you that we are spending the weekend in Augusta, visiting David’s Mom. We haven’t been here in a couple of months, due to my insane debilitating ruthless super-busy work schedule, so the first thing my husband did was tackle the yard, which is huge and needed a lot of attention. I threw on some old shoes and helped him as much as I could, dragging away ivy clippings and the crepe “murder” limbs from his pruning and loading them up in a cart to dump in the woods.  He was happy for the help – I’m not normally much of a “yard-work” kinda girl.

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I would tell you how nice it was to see David’s family. His sister Debbie and her husband are visiting from California and we had an “early Thanksgiving-inspired” dinner together last night.  Southern-style holiday food (roasted turkey, cornbread dressing and gravy, potatoes and cranberry sauce) is my favorite food in the world and I could eat it for days.

After dinner, we watched National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation for the umpteenth million time, as it’s a Thanksgiving tradition in both our families.  My sister will cry “traitor!,” but I’m really okay about not seeing it again until next year.

Very little chance of that happening, though.  ::sigh::

If we were having coffee….

I would tell you that Friday night we watched CNN’s coverage of the horror as it transpired in Paris, just as I’m sure you did.  My heart breaks for all of those who lost loved ones, and I’m more frightened than ever of what our world is becoming.  The only solace is the outpouring of love and support being shown world-wide.  Maybe we’re not as jaded and cynical and self-centered as I sometimes despair – perhaps there’s enough light in us as a people to drown out this darkness and evil.  I would tell you that I’m sending prayers, good energy, positive thoughts (the intentions are the same whatever you prefer to call it) towards the healing of those affected by this tragedy.

Wait, I’m so sorry…may I pour you another cup? 

If we were having coffee…

I would tell you I’m starting to get excited about the upcoming holidays.  I can’t believe it’s almost Thanksgiving and I’ll get to take off for a few days then and probably a whole week at Christmas.

I love this time of year, with so many opportunities to celebrate with the people you love.  (And parties, dressing up, ice-skating, delicious food, twinkly lights and decorations make it even better!)

If we were having coffee…

I’d tell you that I’m feeling very lucky to have made it half-way through NaBloPoMo/Nanopoblano.  I’m a little disappointed with myself – I haven’t written as much or as well as I feel I did last year.  I just don’t have many words right now…maybe it’s just the mental beating I’m taking at work or maybe I just haven’t found my sea legs yet.  I have really enjoyed the writing challenges over at Yeah Write – I haven’t done much “creative writing,” and the microstory challenge is proving to be so much fun: crafting a story in only 42 words.  It delights the wordsmith in me, changing and exchanging adverbs and adjectives, polishing, refining – there are so many words in the English language, but there is truly a “right” word for exactly what you are trying to say. It’s tremendously exciting to hone a tiny amount of language into a larger “story.”

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If we were having coffee…

I’d tell you how lovely it’s been hanging out with you and how much I would look forward to you joining me next week.  Are you sure you won’t take some pumpkin bread “to go?”

I’d also like to thank Nerd in the Brain – I’ve enjoyed her “if we were having coffee” posts so much, it inspired me to brew up a pot and join you all!  I hope you have a wonderful week!

 

I Carry Your Heart With Me

This week’s Yeah Write microstory challenge, “Where is your heart?” reminded me of a post I wrote last March, but with a twist. I know where my heart is.

I can feel its weight of love and memories.

Here’s to my dear friend, Nykoyen.
You are forever missed,
but forever in my heart.

Reposted from March 3, 2015

i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go)
– E.E. Cummings

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March 3, 2009: my friend Nykoyen Ekpoudom passed away from a venous thromboembolism, a blood clot in major vein in her leg that broke loose and traveled to her lungs. It was unheralded and lightning fast – she lost consciousness and fell walking out of her office building in Manhattan. She never woke up.
I never got to say goodbye.

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I think about her a lot.

It stuns me that she never got to meet one of the other most important people in my life; my husband, David. She would have approved.
Having her approval was a big deal.

She would have a lot to say about my current career ambiguity (probably unsolicited.)
She would want to know about the plan I should be working on.
She gave tough love when it was needed.

Were she here, she would read every single blog that I write.
She would give thoughtful feedback.

She would covet my new black boots.

She was the kind of friend you just talked to. About anything. Goofy or funny or crazy or scary or serious. Good or bad. And yeah, if you were being an idiot, you could count on Nyk to gently bring that to your attention, but in a “get your *#%^ together – you’re better than that” kind of way. 10400076_68006197560_4408826_n copy Friends serve so many roles in your life – each one is unique and has a different place in your heart.

Nyk was unabashedly my Partner-in-Crime. We were “sisters from another mister” – almost always up to something. Flirting with some hot boy, crashing a happenin’ party and commanding the room; shopping for completely unnecessary footwear, tossing down a Cosmopolitan or two three.

Off on some crazy adventure in Texas or California or New York.

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She was a brilliant business woman, strategically on-point for a stellar international career.

Her goal was to always honor her family and her heritage. She wanted to bring change to her corner of the world.
She would have.

She liked to grab all her girls, weave through the crowds in whatever bar and dance like a dervish in front of the band.
She had a thing for drummers.

She had a razor sharp brain, an appreciation for happiness and a deeply kind and generous nature. She saw the best in people – their true potential.
She possessed a rich and rare sense of humor.

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She dazzled like a diamond in a sun beam, illuminating every room she walked into.

She would order the craziest combinations of food. Baked plantains, pickles, french fries and sweet and sour meatballs. Chili-covered “death” dogs, topped with peppers and Pepperidge Farm Goldfish crackers, drowned with diet coke.

She always had my back.

She was my friend.

My life moves on, skirting a Nkoyen-shaped hole in the world.

I miss her. nyk I carry her in my heart.

If the wind is right…

Pictures from our sunset catamaran cruise last month in Panhandle Florida!

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The “Sailaway”

 

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Destin Harbor

A pod of dolphins entertaining the boats

Sunset and storm clouds building at the Point…

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A pod of dolphins entertains their audience

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Beautiful sunset

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#nofilter.  Really.

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A stunning end to the day and the cruise…

 

“hark, now hear the sailors cry,
smell the sea, and feel the sky
let your soul & spirit fly, into the mystic…”
― Van Morrison

Three Things Thursday: November 12, 2015

I borrowed this concept from the lovely Nerd in the Brain, who encourages you to steal this “exercise in gratitude” with “wild abandon” by sharing three things that made you smile this week and “fill your blog with the happy.”

This week was super-busy, but I had some really nice moments to brighten it up a bit.

Thing #1: Two delightful lunches!

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Lunch #1 – the Pace Cetter’s Women’s Business Networking Luncheon at the Capital City Club!  I love this group of ladies.  They are incredibly kind and positive and the monthly luncheon is something I always look forward to.

Lunch #2 – the annual Thanksgiving Day buffet the hotel throws for all 500+ employees.  ::sigh::  There’s a lot of deliciousness, but they really blow it out with the desserts.  This occasion was something my former colleague, Cheryl and I looked forward to all year long. We would stuff ourselves silly with turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes and gravy and pumpkin pie and then lay torpidly on our desks afterwards like beached whales.  I miss her a lot (she earned a very well-deserved promotion and transfer), so it was a little bittersweet to go down by myself this year and just have a tiny piece of pie in her honor.

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Thing #2: Spending time with people I like

I’m fortunate to work with some really fantastic people.  We had a big multi-brand corporate training session this morning at one of our sister hotels, and my co-manager Alp and I got to catch up with our former colleague, Abbey, whom we had no idea would be attending.  It was awesome to hang out afterwards over pizza and catch up before we had to heading back to work.

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Thing #3 : a truly stunning sunset

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Tonight’s sunset, seen from the 72nd floor, was spectacular.  I never get tired of them.

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And there you go!  Three things that made me smile and brought joy to my week.  Thanks as always, Nerd in the Brain, for the inspiration!

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Instant Grat Instagram: Sunset Porn

I warned you last week that I had a new topic I would pull out whenever the writing genes wouldn’t zip up all the way.

I call it Instant Grat Instagram. {Lamely} bringing you my favorite moments from what is currently my favorite social media platform.  Hope you enjoy!

Today: Sunset Porn

Sunset porn. Pure and simple.

My loft has a spectacular view of the Atlanta skyline and I get some amazing sunsets.

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Atlanta skyline.

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Sunset on the Augusta canals, Augusta, Georgia.

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Rosemary Beach – above the roof tops.

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Evans, Georgia. Sunset over the lake.

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My favorite skyline photos. Looks like ruffles of light.

Me and the hubs - Rosemary Beach, FL

Me and the hubs – Rosemary Beach, FL

Sun set in the North, Georgia Mountains - Big Canoe

Sunset in the North, Georgia Mountains – Big Canoe

Miramar Beach, Florida

Miramar Beach, Florida

Destin, Florida

Destin, Florida

“The pale stars were sliding into their places. The whispering of the leaves was almost hushed. All about them it was still and shadowy and sweet. It was that wonderful moment when, for lack of a visible horizon, the not yet darkened world seems infinitely greater—a moment when anything can happen, anything be believed in.”
Olivia Howard Dunbar, The Shell of Sense

Heartless

“He’s leaving me!” Ashley’s body convulsed with sobs.
Jennifer absently patted her friend’s hand, but couldn’t muster any sympathy.
She realized she was completely devoid of feeling.
“Damn.” She shrugged, but without remorse.
She had left her heart in her other purse.